With the rise of social media, messaging apps and photo editing software, it’s become increasingly easy for someone to create false evidence or manipulate digital records to support their claims. Some common schemes include:
- Photoshopping screenshots to change the tone or content of conversations
- Using AI to falsify exchanges or create fake messages
- Doctoring photos to depict abuse or neglect that never occurred
- Making fake social media accounts in your name to post damaging content
- Creating deepfake audio or video to make it seem like you said or did something you didn’t
These tactics can be convincing, especially to those who are not tech-savvy. But knowing what to watch for can help you counter these efforts and protect your rights as a parent.
Responding to false accusations
If your ex is making false accusations in a child custody case, it’s crucial to take immediate action to defend yourself. Keep in mind that some actions will be more effective than others. Rather than fighting directly with your ex or accusing them of making things up, consider these measures:
- Seek legal counsel: An experienced family law attorney can help you develop a strategy to counter lies and work within the legal system to hold your ex accountable for false statements.
- Retain expert testimonies: Hire experts who can challenge the authenticity of digital evidence and provide alternative explanations for any suspicious activity.
- Keep a record of every exchange: Save every message, voicemail and email related to your ex and your child. This can help you prove that false accusations are just that – false.
- Be cautious with online activity: Avoid engaging in online arguments or posting sensitive information that could be misinterpreted or used against you.
- Document everything: Keep a detailed record of your interactions with your child, including photos, videos and witness statements.
You have the right to defend yourself against false accusations. Taking these steps to counter them makes it easier for the truth to come to light and to safeguard your rights, reputation and relationships with your children.