We are more mobile than ever today. People change jobs, cities and even states for new opportunities. But this mobility can shake up the lives of parents who share custody of their children. When a job offer comes from another place, parents face tough choices. Understanding how to handle these situations ahead of time helps everyone plan better.
Legal requirements in California
In California, you need permission to move with your child if you share custody. Courts look at many factors when deciding if a move works for the child. The Courts refer to these factors as LaMusaga factors. The courts consider things like the child’s relationship with both parents, school situation, stability of the child, etc. Ultimately, the Court will determine if it is in the best interest of the child to move.
Remember that other states have their own rules about custody modifications and relocation. Check local laws if you’re moving to or from a different state.
Making the move work
Relocating doesn’t have to mean choosing between a career and your family responsibilities. However, it can require flexibility and creativity. Some ways you might make relocation work include:
- Asking your employer about remote work options
- Suggesting a trial period with frequent travel back home
- Looking into flexible scheduling that allows for extended visits
- Considering temporary housing near your child during transition periods
Parents can adjust custody arrangements too. You might switch from weekly exchanges to longer blocks of time during school breaks. Some parents agree to split travel costs or meet halfway for exchanges.
Technology helps maintain connections between visits. Regular video calls, online game nights and shared digital photo albums keep relationships strong across distances.
Make planning a priority
Job relocations while sharing custody present challenges, but with proper planning, they don’t have to harm your relationship with your child or your career. Start conversations early with the other parent, your employer and legal advisors.
Understanding California’s legal requirements and exploring creative solutions helps everyone adjust. With open communication and flexibility, you can balance career growth with your most important job—being a parent.