Family travel should be something you look forward to. Unfortunately, that excitement is significantly impacted by separation and divorce, especially travel out of the state or country.

Depending on your family’s particular situation and legal arrangements, you may or may not need permission from your child’s other parent before taking them out of the country on a vacation, family visit, or other reason.

While this might be an inconvenience, it’s important.

Rules and regulations on international travel protect children from being kidnapped by their parents or anyone else. Testing, or outright ignoring, them can have serious emotional and legal consequences for everyone involved.

In this guide, we’ll go over the legal framework for international travel with a child, how custody comes into play, and much more.

Legal Framework for International Travel with a Child

Unless you have sole custody, you’ll generally need the other parent’s consent to take your child out of the country. Even if it’s relatively easy to leave the United States with your child, you’ll need to prove parental approval for the country you’re visiting.

Remember: Any citizen leaving or entering the United States needs a current passport, including newborns, toddlers, grade school kids, and teenagers. A child under 16 must apply for their passport in person with both parents or legal guardians.

Being separated or divorced can certainly complicate this. If you have sole custody, cannot locate the other parent, or the other parent cannot appear, you must provide documentation of parental consent and your legal arrangements.

Not having the proper documentation in place could mean serious stress and complications at your destination. Always check the laws of the country you’re visiting.

The Role of Custody Agreements and Court Orders

The custody agreement and court orders you have in place apply to international travel.

Your agreement might even specify how to handle taking your children out of the country in something called a “vacation” clause.

For example, your agreement or order may require the traveling parent to provide the other parent with a detailed itinerary, including flight information and accommodations. You might also have to get their consent in writing or demonstrate that they approve the travel circumstances.

If the other parent doesn’t agree to your child traveling internationally, but you believe it’s something you should be able to do, you’ll likely have to petition the court for a modification to your agreement.

When Both Parents Have Custody

If you share custody of your child, the other parent’s consent must be secured for international travel, even if you’re the custodial parent. Further, your travel plans must respect the parameters of your parenting time.

If the trip will go beyond your normally scheduled time, include that information when preparing the other parent’s consent documentation. If you don’t, they could petition the court to penalize you.

When One Parent has Custody

If you have sole custody, you may travel internationally without specific consent of the other parent. However, you will need to present the legal agreement stating that you have sole custody when applying for your child’s passport.

When Parents Have Custody Disputes

In general, traveling out of state or the country during a custody dispute is not recommended. With multiple factors in question and the risks of violating the law, the best thing to do is stay put.

If you decide to attempt traveling internationally during a custody dispute, transparency is vital. You’ll need to obtain consent from the other parent and share your plans for transportation and accommodation.

If you’re traveling to see family, or for an educational opportunity for the child, such reasons may help your case more than a regular vacation.

Documentation and Parental Consent Forms

Can a parent take a child out of the country without the consent of the other parent? Not without the proper documentation.

In addition to your children’s passports, you should carry a written, notarized parental consent from the other parent. This way you’ll have it handy at customs and other important points.

You’d also be wise to carry contact information for the other parent. In the event that a piece of documentation comes into question, you can make it easy to get in touch with your child’s other parent.

The Role of International Treaties and Laws

International treaties and laws can delay a parent’s ability to take their child out of the country. Again, these rules exist for the protection of our children.

Many countries, including the United States, demand specific documents and authorization from both parents before allowing a child to enter or leave the country. Such requirements are designed to prevent child abductions and other forms of exploitation.

As a parent, research your destination country’s requirements before planning international travel with your child. The U.S. Department of State’s website provides accessible country-specific information on entry and exit requirements, as well as other important travel information.

Consequences of Violating International Travel Law

Failing to follow the proper procedures for international travel with a child can have serious legal and emotional consequences. If you’re wondering: “Can I take my child out of state for vacation without their father’s permission?” the answer is likely “No, and trying isn’t worth the consequences.”

A parent may face criminal charges (kidnapping or parental abduction), custody disputes, fines, and imprisonment if they don’t obtain the necessary permissions. The other parent might also take legal action.

In addition to having legal consequences, violating international travel laws can lead to emotional consequences, including damage to your relationship with your child.

Children may be traumatized by a stressful travel experience, especially if they’re separated from their other parent for a long period of time. The other parent may also feel angry, hurt, or betrayed by the actions of the traveling parent.

Planning to Travel? Contact Envision Family Law for Child Custody Travel Arrangements

International travel with your child after separating from or divorcing their other parent can be complicated and emotional.

Ensure you have the proper documentation and consent long before it’s time for takeoff to avoid stressful and potentially traumatic situations. This will protect your legal standing as well as your children’s mental wellbeing

At Envision Family Law, we bring decades of experience with child custody law and how it impacts the rest of your life, such as vacationing and international travel.

Call or text us at (888) 211-7814, or use the easy contact form on our site, to learn more or set up your initial consultation.

We always put your children’s best interest first and support your family with compassionate legal guidance.