3 mistakes to avoid in your California divorce
Deciding to part ways with your spouse typically necessitates several major changes in life and includes having to navigate a legal process. No two marriages are the same, and, therefore, neither are any two breakups. However, the California divorce process basically remains the same (aside from changes in law that might occur over time), and it pays to learn more about it before heading to court.
There are several mistakes you’ll want to avoid as you negotiate a settlement and plan a new future for yourself and your children if you’re a parent. While these mistakes are not uncommon, they can cause complications, which can then cause delays. If your goal is to settle your case as amicably and swiftly as possible, try to avoid these issues.
California divorce laws demand full disclosure
Withholding pertinent information regarding assets and liabilities is a mistake many people make when they file for divorce. You might feel like your personal finances or other issues are no longer your ex’s business. However, for the purpose of property division proceedings, you must fully disclose all your assets and debts. The court may consider withholding information deceitful, as in cases where a spouse is trying to hide assets to undermine the other spouse’s settlement amount. Such issues cause delays and can also land you in a heap of legal trouble.
Divorce laws and guidelines vary by state
Maybe you have a friend on the East Coast who recently finalized a divorce, and he or she has been telling you about the process. Another mistake many spouses have made in the past is assuming that court proceedings are standard, meaning the same in all states. While the overall process may be similar across the country, each state operates under its own laws and guidelines, especially regarding issues like child custody or property division. Always use due diligence to learn more about California laws before pursuing a divorce in this state.
Do not make divorce decisions based on your emotions
Ending a marriage can be an emotionally upsetting experience, even if you’re the one who made the decision to do so. A mistake you’ll want to avoid as you head toward a settlement, however, is letting your emotions guide your decisions. This can backfire in a big way. Instead, try to view your divorce proceedings as an important business transaction. Think carefully about your and your children’s needs, particularly those associated with finances. Keep children’s well-being in mind when making decisions regarding custody.
Avoid the temptation to act out of revenge, like refusing to compromise when negotiating schedules for the kids or refusing to sell your house. Making decisions based on emotions can cause you to walk away in a less financially secure situation than necessary. For example, if you can’t afford the house on your own, not selling it might not be the most prudent decision. You deserve a fair settlement in a divorce, and avoiding these mistakes will help you achieve one.